Seek Help When Needed
“If he listens, you’ve made a friend. If he won’t listen, take one or two others along so that the presence of witnesses will keep things honest, and try again.” Matthew 18:16-17 (MSG)
Marriage exists in community. Even though a couple should first seek to resolve a conflict or situation on their own, they may need help. The next step in fighting for your marriage may be to meet with another married couple, pastor or counselor. The real benefit comes when both spouses are present. Being patient with this process is important because it can take time to work through things that have developed over the years. Meeting with a couple or counselor doesn’t mean you have a bad marriage, but it can bring a new perspective, hold spouses accountable and give helpful guidance.
Pray: “God, thank You for Your plan for my life. I pray that You give me wisdom and will prompt me through Your Holy Spirit to seek counsel when needed. Help me discern the good from bad advice of people around me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
