Solve What You Can, Not Involving Others
“work it out between the two of you.” Matthew 18:15 (MSG)
Fighting for your marriage means avoiding the collateral damage that comes from involving others unnecessarily. If you take your conflict to friends, family or (God forbid) social media before doing your best to patiently resolve it at home, you will simply make the problem more complex. Jesus’ plan for conflict resolution draws a circle of protection around the offender and the offended. It acknowledges that people make mistakes and creates a safe environment for working it out. The very essence of marriage shines a light on hidden areas of our lives, creating opportunities for personal growth. Fight to protect this space of healthy confidentiality and conflict resolution. It will bring honor to you, your spouse and your marriage.
Pray: “Lord, thank you that you know my deepest thoughts and that you protect me. I pray that during moments of decision you would bring to mind the intimacy and trust I share with my (wife/ husband) and remind me to value and protect our relationship, and to glorify You in what I say and do. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
